YouAreMe

A public reflection

Nobody chooses where they're born

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We don't choose our country, our first language, our family, or the culture we grow up in. Yet these are often the very things people judge us for. I've always found that strange.


When we meet someone online, it's easy to reduce them to a label. "They're from that country." "They follow that religion." "People like them are all the same." Somehow, one person's actions become the responsibility of millions of others who have never even met them.

The internet seems to make this even worse. We see a few videos, a few headlines, or a handful of comments, and before we realize it, we've started believing they represent an entire nation or religion. It's much easier to stereotype people than it is to get to know them.

But every country has kind people and unkind people. Every religion has those who genuinely try to do good and those who don't. No group is made up of only one type of person.

Sometimes I wonder how different our lives would be if we had simply been born somewhere else. We might speak another language, celebrate different traditions, or have different beliefs. Would that make us a different person? Or would we still want the same things most people do: to feel safe, respected, and accepted?

Maybe the next time we catch ourselves judging someone because of where they come from or what they believe, it's worth remembering that none of us chose the place where our story began.